Monday, July 27, 2015

Unsolved: The Mystery of Irene

Sometimes you wonder how to sift through the tangled maze of memories, divining what is real, what is family lore, what remains hidden.  I don't know what happened to Ruth's close friend, Irene Hertel, in 1925, but I've speculated on illness, depression or maybe being jilted by some unknown man.  Or perhaps Ruth and Irene had had a spat.

Irene was a year or two older than Ruth and a strong Catholic, quite a contrast to my mother's Baptist upbringing.  Yet religion never seemed to be an issue for them.  The picture shows Ruth Meredith (left) and Irene in 1926, probably in the Austin neighborhood.  Looks like a license plate is behind Irene's feet.

Most of the quotes from Ruth's 1925 diary were not in Pieces of a Life, nor was the picture.

Friday, July 3, 1925 - "Not until I started to go to bed did I notice a big envelope and recognize the handwriting.  It is a birthday card and a long letter from Irene.  I read it real slowly; and was very glad and happy about it.  I do love Irene, and I hope that we will renew our friendship with twice as much love and energy.  I pray that we may remain so, if not more, the rest of our lives."

Friday, July 10, 1925 - "Not a word from Irene yet.  I am still waiting, hopefully."  Ruth had written to Irene, mailing the long letter on July 5, her 19th birthday.

Wednesday, July 29, 1925 - "Mrs. Smith, Margarite and James came to lunch today.  (James, often called "Smitty" is brother Jimmie's close friend along with his mother and sister.)  Just as we sat down, the phone rang and I could hardly believe my ears, for it was Irene.   She didn't say anything very important.  We just exchanged words back and forth a few minutes, and then we said Good-bye till two weeks or more from now."  


Monday, July 13, 2015

Birthday Dolls in 1973

In 1973, Kate was 3, Cindy 6 and Lynn 7.  You see them sitting in the living room of the Palatine house in front of a hooked rug Dan and I made.

On Kate's first birthday in April, 1971, Grandma Ruth Kellogg, who was visiting, said that they took movies of  Katie "celebrating with a twinkie cake and a match candle in her high chair."  On May 12 Lynn opened her gifts from Mom and Dad, who were still away at a business-related golf tournament in Las Vegas. One was a doll with hair that "grows", only it didn't!

On Cindy's birthday (which happens to be today,
July 13) back in 1971 Diane and Dan were home and the Kelloggs back in Florida.  Ruth decided to knit a coat for Lynn - and another for Cindy if Lynn's worked out well.  There is a mention in August of starting a pink knit coat for Cindy. Ruth also mentions that she had gifts for the girls - skirts and a dress - "bagged for the trip north"  later in the year.